DIVIN3FAM1LY #34

DIVIN3FAM1LY #34

Welcome to DIVIN3FIVE at 5!

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From the Biblical Perspective.

Today is Tuesday so we are going to talk about how to grow our DIVIN3FAM1LY!

What does it mean to be a Godly, Biblical Family?

Who do you think of when you think of a Godly, Biblical Family?

One of the most famous sentences in literature is the opening of Leo Tolstoy's novel Anna Karenina:

"All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way."

We can also say all Godly families are alike; each ungodly family is ungodly in its own way.

Here are 5 qualities of a DIVIN3FAM1LY

1. Husband and Wife committed to God and each other forever

Genesis 2

1 So the creation of the heavens and the earth and everything in them was completed. 

2 On the seventh day God had finished his work of creation, so he rested from all his work. 

3 And God blessed the seventh day and declared it holy, because it was the day when he rested from all his work of creation.

4 This is the account of the creation of the heavens and the earth.

When the Lord God made the earth and the heavens, 

5 neither wild plants nor grains were growing on the earth. For the Lord God had not yet sent rain to water the earth, and there were no people to cultivate the soil. 

6 Instead, springs came up from the ground and watered all the land. 7 Then the Lord God formed the man from the dust of the ground. He breathed the breath of life into the man’s nostrils, and the man became a living person.

8 Then the Lord God planted a garden in Eden in the east, and there he placed the man he had made. 

9 The Lord God made all sorts of trees grow up from the ground—trees that were beautiful and that produced delicious fruit. In the middle of the garden he placed the tree of life and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.

10 A river flowed from the land of Eden, watering the garden and then dividing into four branches. 

11 The first branch, called the Pishon, flowed around the entire land of Havilah, where gold is found. 

12 The gold of that land is exceptionally pure; aromatic resin and onyx stone are also found there. 

13 The second branch, called the Gihon, flowed around the entire land of Cush. 

14 The third branch, called the Tigris, flowed east of the land of Asshur. The fourth branch is called the Euphrates.

15 The Lord God placed the man in the Garden of Eden to tend and watch over it. 

16 But the Lord God warned him, “You may freely eat the fruit of every tree in the garden— 

17 except the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. If you eat its fruit, you are sure to die.”

18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.” 

19 So the Lord God formed from the ground all the wild animals and all the birds of the sky. He brought them to the manto see what he would call them, and the man chose a name for each one. 

20 He gave names to all the livestock, all the birds of the sky, and all the wild animals. But still there was no helper just right for him.

21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep. While the man slept, the Lord God took out one of the man’s ribs and closed up the opening. 

22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib, and he brought her to the man.

23 “At last!” the man exclaimed.

“This one is bone from my bone,
    and flesh from my flesh!
She will be called ‘woman,’
    because she was taken from ‘man.’”

24 This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.

25 Now the man and his wife were both naked, but they felt no shame.

2. Husband is the Leader of the Home

Ephesians 5:23

For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church.

3. The Wife respects and submits to her Husband.

Ephesians 5:22

For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord.

4. The Husband loves his Wife like Christ loves the church.

Ephesians 5:25-33

25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 

26 to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word.

27 He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault. 

28 In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself. 

29 No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church. 

30 And we are members of his body.

31 As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.” 

32 This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one. 

33 So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

5. Children are blessings from God.

Psalm 127:3-5

3 Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.
4 Children born to a young man are like arrows in a warrior’s hands.
5 How joyful is the man whose quiver is full of them! He will not be put to shame when he confronts his accusers at the city gates.

SHINE THE DIVIN3 + LIVE GOD’S DREAM

Choong Man KimComment